I keep putting this up and putting it down. I don’t know why. Maybe it’s denial. It’s hard to believe he would be 100 years old, and that I am still alive to be able to know this fact.
This is my dad’s way of thinking, per my brother. In a nutshell, my dad wrote to him after a huge fight, that lasted a whole day; “We all have our ups and downs, differences of opinion and happy times. In those bad times, when we know that the issue is not as important as the relationship, we should forget the differences and move on. He said that he can accomplish that by writing down his feelings or opinion and delivering that in the form of the written word. It is less passionate, is likely to be less vehement and with much more consideration of the other person.”