Memory of My Father

My Dad

For me, Yochen/Dad was steady and constant. Watching and partaking in is daily rituals gave me inner strength and security as I was growing up. I am grateful for this strength which I resort to today. Really they are just simple things. For example, and much to our chagrin, let’s remember his incredible faith and earnestness to get his family to church every Sunday. He had wholesome habits, as far as I can recall. He was clockwork in the hour he got up and went to his office, to the time he came home, when he put his tar and paint stained work clothes on to get back to work with his hammer and nails. He was always building, always creating and he never stopped dreaming! His family was a part of that dream. Before work, he would go to shake dice with his buddies at the Midway Cafe and at lunch time, he would always come home and invite me to share a bowl of Campbell’s mushroom soup. So we would pour the soup and he would energetically crumble crackers into his bowl. If it was summer and sunny and warm he would take his ritual dip into the pool at 12 noon, before returning to the office. I would wait every day for him to come back at his predictable times and at the end of every day when he returned, I was there and he would say to me, “George, whata ye know? You ole sock, ole bean, ole snake in the grass.” My conversations with him were not that lengthy in life but that was part of the beauty of it. He was always there for me and he is still here for me today, in my heart. I hope all my brothers and sisters have similar good feelings and memories of our father. Love you, Dad!

Abou Adhem…

Abou Adem

 

 Abou Ben Adhem (may his tribe increase!)

 Awoke one night from a deep dream of peace,

 And saw, within the moonlight in his room,

 Making it rich, and like a lily in bloom,

 An Angel writing in a book of gold:

 

Exceeding peace had made Ben Adhem bold,

 And to the Presence in the room he said,

“What writest thou?” The Vision raised its head,

 And with a look made of all sweet accord

Answered, “The names of those who love the Lord.”

 

“And is mine one?” said Abou. “Nay, not so,”

 Replied the Angel. Abou spoke more low,

 But cheerily still; and said, “I pray thee, then,

 Write me as one who loves his fellow men.”

 

 The Angel wrote, and vanished. The next night

 It came again with a great wakening light,

 And showed the names whom love of God had blessed,

 And, lo! Ben Adhem’s name led all the rest.

 By James Leigh Hunt

“In a Dream”

“In a Dream”

 They came together in a dream

When they were young.

Hand in hand,

They stepped into the verdant forest

Where flowers bloomed in spring

Where birds forever sing.

They lay themselves down along the stream

wearing blue jeans, and boots, to stomp on the marshy ground.

There, they were still.

 She ran her fingers through his golden curls

And gazed into his sad blue eyes

And with his long and elegant hands,

He traced her smile and happy face.

 They set their clothes to the side and kissed and made love.

And when they were finished, they dressed as the fish began to swim.

He gave her his shirt to wear and she to him her baggy velvet coat.

They smiled and giggled as they saw themselves dressed in each other’s clothes.

 And then they rose and walked out of the forest and out of the dream.

And as they crossed the threshold of reality

They gently let go of each other’s hands

And softly drifted away.

 By Me